Q: I’ve had hip and knee replacements within the last three years, and my hubby has been taking care of me. How do we go from caregiver and patient back to husband and wife? The intimacy is gone. Please help!
-Deb Y.
A: Hi Deb,
There are few things in life more powerful, motivational and compelling than the power of love. For that reason, recapturing the intimacy is absolutely possible. But the route is different from relationship to relationship, because what works for one is often useless to another. The key is finding out what’s the best route for you and your husband to take to recapture intimacy.
All healthy, loving relationships revolve around some form of physical, emotional or spiritual caregiving. This driving need in us is a strong part of why we connect with partners in the first place. For many, the transition from caregiver back to lover is uncomplicated and automatic. For others, some kind of short-term intervention is needed. The first step is to discuss this with your spouse. If that doesn’t create change and all your womanly instincts and charms are ineffective, a chat with someone from your local place of worship or with a professional therapist may be necessary. The bottom line is that recapturing lost intimacy is possible – but you must act now!
Wishing You Great Health,
Dr. John H. Sklare
www.innerdiet.com
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